Sunday, April 19, 2009

Be what you are looking for....

So many of you may have heard the idea that you should have a list of what you want in a future companion. Also you may have heard that it's good to be what you want. The question now is are you now or working on becoming everything you want in a future companion. that is one thing I have always tried to do.
I think if I would have thought about this more before I might have got the guys I've met that are everything I want. I have been and am still working on being what I want. I decided I want a guy who dances so I am taking a dance class. I want a guy who apprienciates music, because my major is music. Many of the things I want in a future companion I want them because that's what I am already or I am striving to become whatever the characteristic may be. I do not think I'm the only person who does this, actually I can almost guaruntee that I am not.
I hope this doesn't discourage you from writing that list. I think it is a great idea to write a list of what you want but make it not only a list of what you want but a list of who you are and what you want to do with your life.

just some ideas

-TRG

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